Mana Bernardes | Categorias | Joias
I can't be in the company of girls.
"The fact is that I absolutely cannot be in the company of girls, it causes me very serious problems. This is expressed in the fact that I start to blush (but I'm used to it), breathing becomes difficult, weakness appears in my legs, my hands tremble, turn icy, as if I held them in cold water for an hour, and tension arises in the neck and lower back. It gets to the point where I literally can't walk and lose my coordination. In general, I am very tense at the same time, any touch makes me flinch. Interestingly, if someone addresses me at such a moment, I respond calmly, my thoughts are clear. I can even joke, but I don't take jokes from the outside, or I perceive them as somehow exaggerated, and then I start laughing with an unnatural nervous laugh. At the same time, I automatically try to rub my frozen hands (the skin turns purple, a white spot remains from touching my finger).
I know that this is a purely psychological problem, maybe a mental disorder, since taking sibazone several times all these symptoms disappeared (for the duration of its action, at least). I'm constantly trying to convince myself that everything is fine, it's my subconscious that makes me think so, and in fact it's not, but such attempts have never been successful. This only increases the weakness.
I want to understand what it might be, and then I hope to find concrete ways to get rid of all this with the help of literature on psychiatry."
You can find anything in the literature on psychiatry, but you can't get rid of certain troubles with its help. To get real results, you need a live consultant. That's by the way.
In fact, for adequate information (communicative) exchange and interaction with the outside world, the human psyche must be configured in such a way that the processes of arousal do not exceed the processes of inhibition in strength and duration. In other words, the arousal signal should act as a short-term impulse that stimulates the work of certain centers of the body and gradually fades, as is the case with motors based on the inertial principle of motion (you know, they played with cars in childhood). It is in this case that the successful functioning of various body systems is ensured, that is, there are enough forces for everything, warm hands, loving eyes, and soft speech...
But if the pulse cannot slow down, it continues to stimulate selected centers non-stop, then the central nervous system simply does not have enough power to ensure the work of other nerve centers. The result is a loss of control over your body and emotions.
There is a way out - to consciously master the processes of inhibition in order to use them to interrupt excitatory impulses. By the way, medications do this for you, but, as you correctly noted, their effect is not long-lasting, and it leads to a weakening of the will.
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